Girl Talk:How To Deal With Being Single


  1. I have now embraced being single. I have been single now for years. I have no problem meeting men or being approached by them. The problem is afterwards, when we exchange numbers. 8 out of 10 times we talk once over the phone and then they ghost me or we talk a few times and he asked me out, stands me up and then ghost me. The other 1 time of of the 10 I will meet a guy and he actually calls and we vibe really well. My phone gets stolen, lost, or acts up and then when I get a new phone dudes number it's in the cloud even though I know I backed my phone up and so I have no way to contact them ( don't know the last name to Google them) And then the rest of the time it's what I just experienced, a guy really really really likes me but is slow to make a move, so I make the move. He responses positively and guess what? Ghosted yet again. This has been the case since high school. It was such a toll on my self esteem that I was depressed for years. One of my friends divorced her husband and met an amazing guy the next week after filing the papers. No such luck for me. I have finally just excepted the fact that maybe God, the universe , whatever want's me to be single and I am now cool with it. I have stopped looking for a man and stopped getting my hopes up. I have decided to focus on me, I do dating sites just for fun but never with any expectation of anything more. It has been very freeing. There are 2 things that I miss though, sex and have someone to cuddle with. Future cat lady in the making I guess.πŸ˜‰

  2. So proud of you….that you're taking time to first love yourself. I stopping looking at 2 Oceans awhile back because I felt it was not really real and a lot of things were being fake. Sorry but I have to be true- I'm just glad to see you loving you- You can do it Sweetie…you are a beautiful young lady.

  3. I’ve been watching your videos for a long time now and I’ve never seen you glow like this it’s amazing how much inner happiness can make you so exquisitely radiant you are breathtakingly gorgeous I’m so happy for you !

  4. I respect what you said. Time for you. Put your trust and faith in god, he won’t foresake. Well done for starting anew.

    Personally I sad, but it’s like the old saying. One door closes another exciting one opens. You are beautiful inside and out. Xx well done Unique πŸ™πŸ½πŸ˜˜

  5. Being single is not something to 'deal with', I happen to believe that being single is a blessing and not just a 'phase' but actually a conscious decision that some people make.
    Great video πŸ™‚

  6. Being single is a very VALID position hunny. I say enjoy it because one thing people who are in a relationship wont tell you is that not everything that glitter aint gold and all relationships take work. Also Ms Love, I read thorugh all the lines in this video and I love your delivery.

  7. Love yourself, Encourage yourself & Enjoy yourself, get some enjoyment out of each day every day for the rest of your life because time waits for no one. Wait for that special one Unique that loves himself first so that he can love you as much as he loves himself. Some people come and go in our lives for a reason and a season to help us grow. I see you are growing by leaps and bounds. Don't allow anyone to change who you are but always be willing to make changes along the way. Keep smiling!

  8. You can be in a relationship and still feel alone. I've never been in a relationship (but have been on dates) with that being said… I was on a journey and felt like being in a relationship would hinder that journey. I was able to focus on my studies, traveled the world, was born in a little Caribbean island but lived in Europe, South Africa, Israel and currently doing a PhD in Australia. And not to mention I've recently just met bae here in Australia at the age of 30. My twenties was to discover me and explore life and man did I live my best life and never felt lonely. So please ladies…embrace this wonderful journey❀

  9. Thank you for this video and the inspirational words. You have no idea how much this helped me. 😘😘😘😍😍😍❀❀❀❀

  10. My girl, you are just amazing lady…hope someday i meet you. this is my favorite of your vlogs…some people just come to your life to weigh you down, to reduce your pace to success..I'm also free

  11. Thank you for this video I needed to see this I started to cry watching it I for sure need a change in my life thank you for being so open and honest at the age I am now 25 I need to let a lot of things go.most times I'm like I started at 24 years old with my dreams I'm still at the bottom of my dreams but I will never give up or let it go because God knows when it will be the perfect time to make it a reality and yes to ,love yourself is so important which I didn't do but now at such a late age I believe more in myself and I can finally I love myself even if there are days where I want to get negative so keep inspiring and giving advice and by the way you look amazing what are your skincare secrets I need a few tips?

  12. Girl, I needed this positive energy and words of inspiration. This message is a godsend. I totally clicked this video by chance and didn't know why, but now I do. Thank you. I think you've found your niche.

  13. Hey Unique, not sure if you have a church home in Chicago already, but would love to invite you to check out All Nations on 73rd & Chappel, 8:00 a.m. or 10:30 a.m. You would love it! Lots of people your age and, oh my goodness, the services are lit!

  14. Women make mistake in loosing themselves in relationships. The key is to know yourself, before getting into any relationship. When I was single I dated myself. Took my self out, bought my self gifts etc. So that when a man came along. I would know how I want to be treated. If you know yourself. You wouldn't loose yourself.

  15. You look absolutely stunning and genuinely happy!! I agree with everything in this video, that''s what I try to tell my friends when they want me to get a boyfriend. I love myself so much and I'm so complete that I can't accept less than I deserve into my life. I feel really sorry for some women who submit themselves to all kinds of struggle just to be in a relationship.

  16. You surprise me every time ! I see a bit of myself in you, it was because of you I deiced to start my own channel, I'm sure you have inspired many along the way. Keep it babe xo

  17. I love this video. It has really open my eyes. Yes I was watching the McClurin Twin Family and Jamie n Nikki and was wishing I was blessed to have a family like that πŸ™‚ had a family like that!

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